There's no shame in being wrong, only refusing to learn. Phrases to get comfortable saying:
Thanks for correcting me, I didn't realise that before.
I hadn't though of it like that, I understand now.
I was wrong about that, and I've changed my mind.
I should do some more research before I argue this point.
One of the criticisms I've faced over the years is that I'm not aggressive enough or assertive enough, or maybe somehow, because I'm empathetic, it means I'm weak. I totally rebel against that. I refuse to believe that you cannot be both compassionate and strong.
Never allow waiting to become a habit. Live your dreams and take risks. Life is happening now.
Someone said, "I'd rather adjust to your absence than be frustrated by your presence." I felt that.
Become friends with people who aren't your age. Hang out with people whose first language isn't the same as yours. Get to know someone who doesn't come from your social class. This is how you see the world. This is how you grow.
Success is when you can spend 90 percent of your time doing the things you want to do and only 10 percent doing things you have to do. Most people's lives are just the opposite.
Listen. There will always be people who will try to bring you down and that's because they're already below you. So you gotta keep killing it queen. And in a world full of bitches... be a bad one.
Stop being patient and start asking yourself, "how do I accomplish my 10 year plan in 6 months?" You'll probably fail but you'll be a lot further than the person who simply accepted it was going to take 10 years!
saw a quote that said 'if we all ate the same we would still all have different bodies' & I literally think that's something you need to keep reminding urself
Daily reminder: If someone doesn't like you, Who cares. People barely like themselves nowadays. Let it go.
My sisters always said which might of come from my father at one point... it's that 'no' is a full sentence... You can just say no and I just really like that in all aspects of life.
And since we all came from a woman
Got our name from a woman and our game from a woman
I wonder why we take from our women
Why we rape our women, do we hate our women?
I think it's time to kill for our women
Time to heal our women, be real to our women
And if we don't we'll have a race of babies
That will hate the ladies, that make the babies
And since a man can't make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
You know every man has two lives and the second starts when he realises he has only just one. It's like a happy person wants wants ten thousand things, a sick person just wants one thing. It's your your unlimited desires that are clouding your peace, your happiness. Have desires just don't focus on more than one desire at a time. The universe is rigged in such a way that if you want one thing and focus on that, you will get it. But everything else, you gotta let go.
apply for jobs you're not qualified for! audit upper-level classes! get drunk with your TAs! see that poster advertising that lecture series? go there take notes and ask questions! thank the presenter for talking about this topic you love! if the class is full before you register, email the professor and ask if they can squeeze you in! RAISE YOUR HAND! tell the job! ask for help! file complaints! go to class in your pajamas and destroy the reading! you got this! you KNOW you got this! be arrogant enough to learn EVERYTHING! take your meds! punch a velociraptor in the dick! fear is useless and temporary! glory is forever! shed your skin and erupt angel wings! help out! spread your sun! i had a really good morning! you deserve a really good morning! kill anyone who says you don't and build a throne from their bones!
Your million dollar stock portfolio starts with buying 1 stock. Your strong body starts with 1 push up. Your empire starts by laying 1 brick. Success isn't build overnight with one huge win, it's an accumulation of smaller wins which compound over time. Consistency is key.
Work hard and be the men you wanted to marry.
Successful people are not gifted; they just work hard, then succeed on purpose.
Get a blood pressure test when over 40.
Do not flaunt online. Flaunt where there are no cameras.
There is no lack of time, there is a lack of interest. Because when you really want to, night turns into day, Wednesday turns into Saturday and a moment turns into opportunity.
Any picture is taken of you. If a picture is taken of you, somebody has it and somebody will use it against you. Don't. Just don't... If you're watching this right now, if anybody, anybody is watching this, don't post your feelings. Don't do it to yourself.
Did you really have a bad day or did you have 10-20min where you let your thoughts run undisciplined which led you to a bad vibe that you let carry you away? Cmon, bro.. you run this shit. Pay attention.
Never destroy anyone in public when you can accomplish the same result in private.
You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.
Don't ever judge her walls. They kept her alive.
Pursue the things that you love doing and then do them so well that people can't take their eyes off you.
You can't afford something unless you can buy it twice.
Peace in the world is everybody's business, no matter where you live or what you do.
A seed grows with no sound but a tree falls with a huge noise. Destruction has noise, but creation is quiet. This is power of silence... Grow silently.
There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.
No one cares what you think. And neither should you.
If you ever get a flat tire, take a picture of it on your phone so for future reference you can use it as a valid excuse.
Always check your cell signal when looking for a new place to live.
Dream so big that you get uncomfortable telling small minded people.
When in an argument, act as if you're being recorded. This will prevent you from saying stupid dumb shit.
If you're too embarrassed to buy something, get a birthday card with it.
From an 80 year old man:
1. Have a firm handshake
2. Look people in the eye
3. If in a fight, hit first and hit hard
4. Always accept an outstretched hand
5. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90% of all your happiness or misery.
6. Lend only those books you never care to see again
7. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have
8. When playing games with children, let them win
9. Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for our convenience, not the caller's
10. Be a good loser and be a good winner
11. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go
12. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
13. Sign cards with 'Someone who thinks you're terrific'
Easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car. Easy to spell opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity. Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad. You become what you constantly think about. Watch yourself.
Put no one else above you.
When you can't control what's happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what's happening. That's where the power is.
The more focus you put in your weakness, it could either degrade you unhealthily or use it to your advantage.
Read. Doesn't matter if you don't understand it just read. By the end of it, you will understand somewhat of it and then it builds. Make it habit.
Do you want it? Or do you like the idea of it? For example, I like the idea of a mohawk but I will never get it. Because I don't like it enough to want it.
I just had that "Yeah fuck you guys I'm getting to the top" attitude the whole time and that's what got me here.
Money is just a medium for exchanging value. The only way to make money is to provide value.
Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the face.
You can't change your situation, the only thing you can change is how you choose to deal with it.
In mystical traditions, it is one's own readiness that makes experiences exoteric or esoteric. The secret isn't that you're not being told. The secret is that you're not able to hear.
If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, crawl. As long as you're moving forward.
Absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. Add what is uniquely your own.
Make sure your worst enemy doesn't live between your two ears.
We all go. What you leave behind should be bigger than you.
Once you pick a side, if you're not loyal to that side, then who the hell are you?
Love rejection. Love being told 'no'. Love your haters. Love your fuck ups, your flaws and all of your fears. The more you love them, the less power they hold over you.
If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
A leader has 6 values:
1. Knowledge - to read & listen
2. Empathy - synchronise feelings with others
3. Have a good attitude
4. Deliberation - which is done consciously & intentionally
5. Set an example for others
6. Be able to reflect and willing to improve
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